What do YOU want from Love Library? A Reader’s Survey

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Your willing and able blog host reporting for duty!

 

Lately I’ve been thinking a lot about where I want to take this blog. And if I’m being honest, I’ve been thinking a lot about the direction of my life too. I’ve got some major life changes coming up– good ones I think– and I’ve had to put on my big girl pants more than once these past couple of weeks and woman up.

Which leads me to this question… What do you all want from this blog? I need sage advice from my loyal and beautiful readers. I’m by no means a professional blogger and some days I struggle with things like:

  • Topics – are there topics (specific or general) you’d like covered in the coming months?
  • Types of Posts - DIY, recipes, books, fashion, personal stuff…. have your say about what you like most/least
  • Posting Frequency – too many posts, not enough, just right?
  • Design – I am planning a blog redesign this summer – so your comments and ideas would be helpful at this point
  • Blog Features – what would make your reader experience better?
  • Community – Are there features that you’d like added to help connect more? Do you feel connected to me?
  • Services and Tools – what could I offer you to help you improve your life?
  • What Frustrates You about  Love Library? What is Best about it?
  • Other Ideas and Feedback – anything goes, big or little.

This list was heavily created from this post on Problogger.

Please leave your answers to one or all questions in the comments. I will leave the survey up indefinitely, but I will offer up the prize of a free book to one lucky, randomly selected commenter on Wednesday, May 1, 2013. The winner can be a previous winner and does not have to be a citizen of the U.S.A.

Please help me improve!

love always,
melanie

How to Thrift, Find and Scavenge

junk

Today I’m going to share my top 10 (sometimes) dirty secrets to thrifting, finding and scavenging! I’ve been shopping at thrift stores since middle school, so I’ve been at the game for over half of my life. And I learned from the best– my two, crazy aunts who would even buy their food from what they liked to call the “Scratch and Dent” and the “Day-Old Bread Store.”

1. Keep a running list of what you want or need. Going into a thrift store, yard sale or flea market without a solid idea of what you want can lead to unnecessary purchases and buyer’s remorse. I can easily get overwhelmed in a junk shop, so I keep a list of things I’m looking for in Evernote, that way I can easily refer back to it.

2. Before you even go out to the thrift stores, flea markets or yard sales, look around your house. Do you really need this item? Can you re-purpose something you already have? Can you take a few items to the thrift store to donate before you buy something else? I highly recommend doing an inventory of what you already own before bringing in new items to your house.

3. Ask your relatives if they are trying to get rid of anything. I can’t tell you how many great finds I’ve found in my relatives’ basements and attics. They are usually happy to give it away and you’ll be getting a piece with family history.

4. Find out when your local thrift stores restock their items. Generally they restock during the week, so try to shop then, instead of on the weekend when items will be picked over.

5. When it comes to flea markets and yard sales, the early bird gets the worm. Seriously. Every time I’ve sold at a flea market, someone has bought stuff out of my car before I even have time to unload it. Those people can be ruthless. And you should be too if you want to get the highest quality items. Find out when the flea market opens and get there before opening time. By the time noon rolls around most things will be picked over and vendors will be ready to pack up.

6. If you aren’t a visionary, bring an honest and visionary friend with you to shop. I love shopping at antique malls and thrift stores with George because he can see through the dirt. He knows if something is fixable or just plain junk. I also really admire the thrifting skills of my friend, Candra. She is a total fashonista and has the keen ability to find key wardrobe pieces in piles of junk.

7. Ask yourself this question: is the piece easily fixable? I have a terrible habit of biting off more than I can chew and I’ve done this with far too many thrifted things. I now like to ask myself if I could fix it in a weekend. If I can’t, I don’t buy it. If I can, I make an attainable (S.M.A.R.T.) plan for fixing it.

8. Outsource the “fixing! 9 times out of 10 a thrifted blouse that you take to the tailor will be cheaper and will fit you better than buying a new blouse at the local mall. It’s more environmentally friendly too!

9. Use alternative sources of thrifting, such as Craigslist and Facebook’s Marketplace. Being tech-savvy in “junk” culture gives you a great advantage over all those old ladies at the thrift store! Just remember to bring a friend with you to pick up the items. Safety first!

10. And the most important rule of all is to have fun! If you are finding that you feel overwhelmed by all the stuff, take a break, get some coffee and relax. Then, take a look at your list and if you feel up to it, get back out there. Junking should be fun, not stressful!

Do you have any other tips to add? I’d love to hear them in the comments!

love,
melanie

 

Happy Birthday, George!

Today is my love’s birthday. I love this dude more now than I did a year ago. We’ve been through so much in the past year and I couldn’t be prouder of you, George! You are patient, kind, handsome and so, so talented!

Happy Birthday, Georgie! I hope the next year is even happier than the last!

If you want to wish George a “Happy Birthday” follow him on Instagram or check out his website.

love your wife,
melanie

A Little Thursday Note

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Today is a big day for me. I have an amazing potential opportunity and I am hope, hope, hoping that it works out.

In the meantime, you can follow me over on bloglovin’! (Just press the button above or on the right sidebar.) I’m totally bummed about the retirement of Google Reader, but it forced me to finally look into bloglovin’. And so far, I’m lovin’ it. Ha-ha.

I’ve also heard good things about Feedly. I just prefer the graphic nature of bloglovin’.

How will you live without Google Reader?

love,
melanie

Happy Birthday, love library!

Photo by heartlover1717 on Flickr

Photo by heartlover1717 on Flickr

One year ago today I started this little blog. It has gone through a lot of changes since the beginning. I wanted to write about weddings, but I quickly found out that I hated writing about weddings. I’ve tried things that have worked and didn’t work, and I appreciate anyone who has stuck around. I’ve got some fun things planned for this little blog and I hope ya’ll stick around for another year!

love,
melanie

I’m not dead!

I’m not dead. Although my blog post hiatus may indicate otherwise. I’ve just been insanely busy with a brand new and extremely exciting possible opportunity that has sucked every single minute out of my life lately. I’ll share it with you all if it works out. If not, I’ll be moping around the house for weeks!

More to come soon!

love,
melanie

Love Friday: May 4th

As a librarian, and as a 21st century girl, I find far too many fascinating tidbits online. So I thought on Fridays, I might share my top 10 favorite things I found on the Internet during the past week. Some of them might be old, but they are new to me!

Here goes:

10. Webstagram: Instagram for the web.

9. 

George and I are planning a trip to Philadelphia to attend Ride to Skate. He did the art for the poster!

8. 

These Kraft library cards are super cute. Although I have no idea what I’d ever do with them!

7.

This hat by Cressida on Etsy would be perfect for the derby. The English really know their hats, am I right?

6. PicMonkey: SUPER easy photo editing, and you don’t even have to sign up for an account!

5.

Mango sticky rice sushi by SheSimmers.

4.  I joined Copious. “A social marketplace for buying from and selling to people, not strangers.” Find me here.

3.

This insanely gorgeous cake by Mowielicious on Hip Hostess.

2.

A Parrot singing Rob Zombie. I love that he sings the guitar parts.

1.

A family sings Bohemian Rhapsody to get pumped for school. I like knowing my dad wasn’t the only one blasting Queen to drop the kids off.

I hope you have an extra fabulous weekend!
love,
melanie

Love Birthdays

Today is my birthday and I’m feeling a bit nostalgic. So, I thought it might be fun to take a look back at my 25th year of life.

I’ve accomplished quite a bit this past year and I’ve made quite a few life changes.

May 2011


I graduated with my Master of Science in Library Science from the top Library Science school in the nation.

June 2011


George and I took a short trip to the mountains. He asked me to marry him. I said yes.

July 2012


We moved to a small town near the coast and I took on a new job as the only librarian at a small, community college.

August 2011

We lived through another hurricane.

October 2011

We dressed as the Blues Brothers for Halloween.

December 2011

George and I decorated out first “real” Christmas tree together and we threw a holiday party.

February 2012

We took a trip to Baltimore and I started this blog.

April 2012

I made it to Freshly Pressed on WordPress AND I won a grant to attend a conference.

This past year hasn’t been all roses and rainbows, but I’m feeling very lucky. We are inviting some friends over for brunch to celebrate.

love,
melanie

Pride

This has been a crazy week. Somehow I made it to Freshly Pressed. I made a good enough argument to win the library some desperately needed furniture. I drove across the state. I introduced myself to new people. I networked– and I didn’t hate it! I’m exhausted, but I’m proud of myself. I don’t often stop to congratulate myself because I always feel I can do more. But you know what? I did a damn good job this week. I went out of my comfort zone, I stood up for my cause, and I got an amazing blog opportunity. So tonight I’m treating myself to a new pair of shoes, a mango lassi and a 9:00 pm bedtime.

Me with a neon mango lassi.

How do you treat yourself after a job well done?

love,
melanie

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